Everything About Premature Ejaculation


Is it an illness? Or “just” a psychological disorder? One thing is certain: it can cause significant problems, even leading to the breakdown of relationships and marriages. Yet in most cases, premature ejaculation is something that can be helped.

If it happens once, it’s not a big deal - there are stages of life, situations, and circumstances where men can’t control their bodies, and they reach climax too early during or even before sexual intercourse. Ejaculation, which accompanies orgasm, can occur before the partner is even aroused. Premature ejaculation affects 20-30% of men.

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What Counts as Premature?

There’s no exact, minute-specific definition, but one thing is clear: if ejaculation occurs before penetration, it’s considered premature ejaculation. It also counts if the intercourse ends just a few minutes after penetration, before the partner is satisfied. This is usually followed by shame, explanations, and apologies on one side, and confusion, frustration, or anger on the other. To prevent this from becoming a recurring issue, it’s important to talk about it - and if needed, consult a professional such as a psychologist, sex therapist, or urologist.

Causes of Premature Ejaculation

The root of the problem is often psychological. It happens more frequently with young, sexually inexperienced adolescents, but it’s also relatively common in adults under stress or those eager to impress a new partner. If it only happens occasionally, there’s no major cause for concern. Problems arise when it becomes consistent or was never normal to begin with. In these cases, the ability to control ejaculation was poorly developed from the start. Repeated failure deepens the issue, increasing frustration if a man feels he can’t control his penis - potentially leading to erectile dysfunction.

Physical causes may also be behind premature ejaculation, such as prostatitis, surgeries, or even neurological damage. In these cases, medication may help solve the problem.


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Solutions for Premature Ejaculation

In most cases, ejaculation control can be learned with practice. Ignoring the issue definitely won’t help. Men can practice alone during masturbation - about 20-30 seconds before ejaculation, they can already sense it approaching. At that moment, stopping stimulation can halt the process. Over time, they can try to lengthen the period before orgasm. Patience and attention from both partners are essential to overcoming the challenges of premature ejaculation.

The Prepared Man

If you’re sure you’ll be getting frisky with someone special, empty the chamber a couple of times at home first, and you’ve already extended the duration of the upcoming session. However, avoid withdrawal (pulling out) as a birth control method, because there might still be a bullet in the chamber - and it can easily go off!

Double Protection, Double Time

Wearing two condoms - especially thick ones - can dull both visual and physical stimulation enough to extend the critical two minutes many times over. Plus, you get extra safety as a bonus with this little trick.

The Numb Lover

Spray this miracle product on an industrial drill and you can later enjoy your partner’s gratitude for her series of orgasms. But it comes with a responsibility! You’ll need to explain why you didn’t join her on the orgasmic journey. Not always an easy task!

The Projectionist’s Trick

As you approach the critical point, conjure up incredibly unsexy, off-putting images in your mind’s eye, and voilà - you’ll feel like you’re starting your climb all over again from the foot of the mountain.

The Escape Artist

Just as every man enjoys oral pleasure, women also appreciate it when their partner gives them an oral pleasure. When the express train starts barreling in, interrupt intercourse in time and humbly descend for some oral attention. While she’s gasping in ecstasy, she won’t suspect why you didn’t continue the assault with your loaded weapon.


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