5 Things That Instantly Kill the Mood During Sex

 and You Don’t Even Realize It

Have you ever felt like your partner was completely into you one moment, and then suddenly, the mood just vanished? Sure, it could be due to reasons beyond your control, but it’s also possible that you did something that’s on this “no-go” list.

Just like in every aspect of life, everyone has their own preferences in bed - things that turn them on instantly and things that completely ruin the moment. Five men shared the little things that immediately make them lose interest in sex.

Hello, Sleeping Beauty!

“I don’t think there’s anything more off-putting than when my partner starts yawning in the middle of sex. Luckily, it’s only happened once, but it was so awkward that it snapped me right back to reality. It completely killed my confidence, and I never met up with that girl again.

She didn’t understand why I made such a big deal out of it - she claimed it had nothing to do with me, she was just tired. But honestly, no guy would take that well. If you’re really that exhausted or just not in the mood, it’s totally fine to say so. But it’s super uncomfortable for both of us if you’re practically falling asleep during sex.”

Lioness or Wild Beast?

“I really don’t like it when women try to act in a way that’s completely different from their usual personality. It makes the whole thing feel fake, and I just don’t get why they do it - it’s a total turn-off.

Specifically, I’m talking about when they bite or scratch so hard that I can still feel it the next day. A little nibble or gentle touch can be insanely sexy, but it’s a huge red flag for me when someone clearly enjoys causing pain. Sorry, but that’s just not my thing.”


ruined mood for sex

Blah, Blah, Blah...

“Let me be clear: I usually love it when my partner talks during sex. Compliments, little hints about what she likes - those things are great. But what instantly ruins the moment is nonstop talking, especially about things that have nothing to do with sex...

I once left a party with a girl who seemed really eager to hook up. But right when things got heated, she suddenly started talking about how many guys had flirted with her at the party and how, despite appearances, she’s ‘not the one-night stand type.’ Look, I have no issue with her wanting to chat about that, but I can’t mix sex and deep conversations at the same time.”

Let Me See You!

“One of the most awkward experiences I’ve had was with a girl who was so self-conscious that she kept trying to hide her body the entire time. Of course, I understand that some people need time to feel comfortable, but even after multiple times together, she never relaxed.

I’m not talking about dimming the lights or not wanting to walk around naked - I mean she was obsessively focused on keeping the blanket over us during sex. The funny thing is, she was absolutely gorgeous. I adored every inch of her, but the fact that she cared more about covering up than connecting with me completely killed the mood.”

Garlic & Spicy Sauce, Anyone?

“One time, my girlfriend and I ended up in bed after a late-night gyros run - I was totally into her. Everything was going great, but when she leaned in to kiss me, the smell of garlic hit me so hard that my excitement just disappeared. The onion breath was intense!

Of course, we laughed about it, brushed our teeth, and things got back on track. But to this day, we still joke about that night.”

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