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5 Things That Instantly Kill the Mood During Sex

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 and You Don’t Even Realize It Have you ever felt like your partner was completely into you one moment, and then suddenly, the mood just vanished? Sure, it could be due to reasons beyond your control, but it’s also possible that you did something that’s on this “no-go” list. Just like in every aspect of life, everyone has their own preferences in bed - things that turn them on instantly and things that completely ruin the moment. Five men shared the little things that immediately make them lose interest in sex . Hello, Sleeping Beauty! “I don’t think there’s anything more off-putting than when my partner starts yawning in the middle of sex. Luckily, it’s only happened once, but it was so awkward that it snapped me right back to reality. It completely killed my confidence, and I never met up with that girl again. She didn’t understand why I made such a big deal out of it - she claimed it had nothing to do with me, she was just tired. But honestly, no guy would take that well. If...

Everything About Premature Ejaculation

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Is it an illness? Or “just” a psychological disorder? One thing is certain: it can cause significant problems, even leading to the breakdown of relationships and marriages. Yet in most cases, premature ejaculation is something that can be helped. If it happens once, it’s not a big deal - there are stages of life, situations, and circumstances where men can’t control their bodies, and they reach climax too early during or even before sexual intercourse. Ejaculation, which accompanies orgasm, can occur before the partner is even aroused. Premature ejaculation affects 20-30% of men. What Counts as Premature? There’s no exact, minute-specific definition, but one thing is clear: if ejaculation occurs before penetration, it’s considered premature ejaculation. It also counts if the intercourse ends just a few minutes after penetration, before the partner is satisfied. This is usually followed by shame, explanations, and apologies on one side, and confusion, frustration, or anger on the other....

Swiping and Ghosting: The Drawbacks of Online Dating

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In recent years, dating has undergone a significant transformation, affecting not only our habits but also the dynamics of relationships. Let's explore how these rules have changed in the online space and what new norms have emerged. Love used to begin with a glance. A stolen smile on the tram, a chance touch in a bookstore. Today, it all depends on a single swipe of our finger - right or left. Dating has transformed, and the rules of emotions have been rewritten. Is it a better opportunity or a trap? Romance or an assembly line? The online space is both an open door and an endless labyrinth. But how do you play the game well in this world? What are the unspoken rules? With the help of psychologists, let's explore the unwritten laws of digital dating. Dating Has Become Simpler but Also More Risky Online Online dating has completely reshaped how we form connections these days. There’s potential and adventure - but plenty of disappointment too. We've collected some of the ...

This is What Most People Get Wrong About Sex

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Men and women were asked about the most common mistakes the opposite gender makes in bed. Here are the lists of the most bothersome issues. In bed, everyone’s preferences differ slightly. People find different things arousing and require varying movements and tempos to experience the most intense pleasure. This is why it’s crucial for couples to talk openly and regularly about sex - to share what they need to make their intimate moments truly satisfying. Partners should express what brings them strong enjoyment and also what they find uncomfortable or distracting. Unfortunately, many people struggle to be honest about their desires and opinions with their partners, even though it’s so important. A study sought to address this issue by asking individuals what they think the opposite gender gets wrong most often in bed. The Most Annoying Mistakes Men Make in Sex, According to Women The website Illicit Encounters surveyed 2,000 people online and compiled lists of the most bothersome mista...

What Do Happy Couples Do Before Bed?

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They Don't Just Turn Off Their Phones There are a few small things to pay attention to in the evening if someone wants a long-lasting relationship. Here's what happy couples do differently. Nowadays, couples have very little free time for each other amidst work and other obligations. Most people only see their partners in the evening or late afternoon during the week. That's why it's so important that the few hours spent together are truly quality time. The pre-sleep routine can greatly influence the relationship between two people: it can lead to distancing and weakening of the bond in the long run, or it can strengthen and stabilize it. Experts have shared what happy couples do before and after going to bed: these habits enhance intimacy and can ensure a long-lasting relationship. Going to Bed at the Same Time To ensure that there is that little bit of time spent together every day, it's important for couples to go to bed at the same time. Although this is often n...

Five Myths About Sex That Make Our Lives Harder

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Five Myths About Sex That Make Our Lives Harder The following summary is based on the findings of Rachel Hills, who has been exploring sexual topics for nearly a decade. In her book, The Sex Myth: The Gap Between Our Fantasies and Reality , she writes about myths, legends, and misconceptions related to sex. Let’s take a look at what she found! If You Don’t Have Tons of Sex When You’re Young, Something’s Wrong with You Hills herself once felt that everyone but her was attending wild orgies or, at the very least, getting involved in steamy sexual encounters daily or every other day. Hills, who lost her virginity only after her college years, points out that a study found college students have significantly less sex than people generally think. According to a survey from New York University, while 72% of college students have some kind of relationship before graduation, 40% said they had only been with three or fewer people during their college years, and only one-third had engaged in se...

Seemingly Harmless Habits that Reveal a Serial Cheater

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Certain behaviors and habits can easily expose a cheater: experts have revealed what raises suspicion. Even a single infidelity results in a tsunami of lies if the unfaithful partner doesn't confess to their act, which only grows with repeated cheating. In these cases, the other person's behavior often changes slightly. According to experts, there are certain habits that suggest a partner has a long-term lover or has repeatedly engaged in one-night stands while being in a committed relationship. Naturally, these don't always indicate cheating, but they can raise strong suspicions, especially if someone notices all of them in their partner. Unpredictability and Fear of Routines According to dating expert Kevin Darné, serial cheaters try to avoid establishing too many habits or stable routines with their partner right from the beginning of the relationship. This way, they can more easily create a free evening and fit in a meeting with their lover. Their unpredictability also...